Female vs Female

Can we talk? Female vs female. Yes, it’s always been a competition because hello that’s what kept our ancestors reproducing. Survival of the fittest and all. I guess this inherent trait is what keeps females from being supportive and happy for other females. Because facts. It always was a competition from day one. To attract mates, you had to be the flyest hunnie with the best assets. It just makes me sad that now in THIS time and era women still feel so threatened by one another. Hasn’t it been evident that it’s already a mans world? Shouldn’t women empower each other and -excuse the cliche -stick together?

I personally feel that as you get older, you become more comfortable and secure in your own skin and other women don’t feel as threatening. But this doesn’t apply to all women. Now let me get something off my chest. All the women I thought were my well wishers and supporters didn’t say one word of encouragement/support when I started my blog. Not a fucking word of acknowledgment. But let’s be honest, I don’t write for other people. This is my escape. My place to rant. And maybe entertain on the way. But it hurts. People I support and lift up don’t reciprocate. Like I know I’m a great person and friend. My intentions are pure and people who know me know this. So their issue isn’t about me. It’s about them and their inner self esteem.

You spend time and effort to wake up early get dressed up put a good outfit together nails did hair did makeup on point. Doesn’t it feel good when another GIRL notices and says “hey girl nice outfit”. How many times does this actually occur? I know how hard it is to manage that shit as a university student so if I see someone look ON FLEEK I’m gonna make damn sure I tell her. Cause lord knows in between work and school and studying homegirl barely has time to WASH her hair let alone style it. And doesn’t it feel 1000x better when a female compliments you rather than male? It’s just so much more endearing. It’s more genuine. It’s a token of appreciation.

Now let’s talk about what happens when you do give a bitch a compliment. You ever get a weird look or a snobby vibe in return? That’s the reason females don’t fuck with other females SMDH. Because if you do compliment a girl she thinks she’s better/hotter than you all of a sudden. Yeah I’m calling all you shady bitches out. I see you. Can we play nice? Like how about instead of a snooty “yes I know I look good you didn’t have to tell me” vibe being thrown off, what if the girl gives a compliment in response? Like “thanks girl your nails look cute.” Or how about just a simple smile and “thank you”? Shit girls can’t even handle compliments without getting their head up their asses 🤩 Absolutely baffling.

Try complimenting a girl today. Yes you the person reading this. I’m talking to you. Let’s be the change we want to see in the world. For real though.

And if a girl compliments you, don’t be a bitch about it.

Xoxo

#bellesbaqwaas

Ps: Next post will be about how I fixed my skin. I had to post this today. 🤭